club PSA because apparently we need one: 1. not every 'relaxation blend' is harmless. 2. if a senior beastman says he has it under control, believe maybe half. 3. if a nape mark stays warm longer than three hours, drink water. don't tough it out. 4. tea left outside your door is not automatically drugged. sometimes someone is just worried sick. 5. before dissolving a mate bond, check whether the other person wrote a proper apology. no. 5 is not policy. it's me being selfish.