someone i've known forever has been coming over a lot since they got hurt. rehab stuff, dinner, studying, whatever. it's complicated. not just friends. not officially anything else either. heard today that someone asked them out. my first thought was not 'good for them.' it was 'does he know they can't run down stairs yet, and that cold weather makes the knee flare up, and that pain meds wreck their stomach?' yeah. i know how that sounds. question: do you get to be jealous when you were too much of a coward to define the thing first?