poll: your partner has to talk to an ex for work. you get jealous. instead of saying 'i’m jealous,' you say some martyr nonsense like 'i just want you to be happy.' what now? A. apologize B. keep apologizing but less theatrically C. admit it was jealousy D. shut up long enough to hear how badly you hurt them personally leaning D with a side of C and maybe a legally binding ban on me saying 'you deserve better' after 9pm.