poll, because apparently i’m not above begging the internet for moral clarity: if you found out your spouse first got close to you because of a misunderstanding, but they were genuinely good to you for a year, what would you do? A. divorce. lying is lying. B. separate and cool off. C. let them explain, no promises. D. make them kneel and practice not sounding like a lawyer. unfortunately D is not a joke to me rn.