found out my girlfriend might not be seeing only me and I know how that sounds. before anyone starts, please don't trash her. she runs a company, she's busy, she's not someone with time to play stupid games. I saw a guy holding her arm and he kissed her. I didn't go over because I didn't want to make a scene and because... yeah, I was scared she'd think I was being exhausting. I'm 6'1, employed, not broke, not living off her, I take care of myself. so is it insane to think maybe he was the one pushing it? how do you get someone's attention back without acting pathetic?