Poll, since this civilization loves outsourcing judgment to strangers: If a human knows you are a high-risk otherworld mage, still lets you stay nearby, buys you clothes, remembers you cannot drink cold water when your magic crashes, and then says 'keep some distance' whenever you move closer—what does that mean? A. Cruel flirtation B. Modern dating etiquette should be abolished C. They like me and are being difficult D. I need a better book