need advice. started dating my childhood best friend and now they act weird around me. before this, holding hands was normal. they made me carry stuff, dragged me into stores, told me i walk too slow, all regular. now i touch their hand and they pull back, look down, ears red, whole thing. i ask if they are mad and they say no. what does that mean. do not tell me to break up. they like me best. say something useful.