wife doesn’t check my phone, doesn’t ask who I’m with, doesn’t care what time I get home as long as I’m safe. normal, right? mature. healthy. great. so why does it feel like being let off leash in the worst way possible. before anyone starts: I’m not cheating. I don’t want to cheat. I want her to text ‘who’s there?’ like she means it. insane thing to admit at my big age but here we are.