if someone keeps treating you like background, do you stay quiet and professional, or do you do something they'll remember? for the record, i know the second option is awful. i know 'i just wanted to be seen' isn't an excuse. but she came back with the bond dissolution form today, and my first thought wasn't even about the hearing. it was: before she signs, will she say my name once like it mattered? ram beastmen get ugly jealous too. please stop calling us harmless.