anonymous question because i need people who do not know me to be honest. my best friend's adopted sister is starting college in the city where i work. she's an adult. he asked me to help her settle in. the problem is i've had feelings for her for a while. six-year age gap. known her since we were kids. yes, i know that makes the whole thing complicated. can i ask her out someday, or do i need to bury this and act normal forever? keep the insults creative but useful.