need advice. made someone very important mad. context: i thought their room had garbage lighting and i was trying to improve the living situation, so i removed the wall between two rooms. BEFORE YOU START: i checked. not load-bearing. i’m dumb but i’m not lawsuit dumb. they’re at a hotel now. i fed the fish, mopped, washed their pillow, ordered repair materials, and have been staring at the wall like it might apologize first. normal people question: do i lead with 'i’m sorry' or 'next time i’ll ask before structural emotional decisions'?