quick poll. if someone cooks for you, runs a shop with you, does your ledgers when you're exhausted, walks out in the rain to bring you home, stays up all night when you're ill, and gets quiet when someone asks you out, are they: A. a reliable childhood friend B. already over the line and being stubborn C. in desperate need of a confession D. someone who should be pinned down and made to answer honestly personally leaning D. not that I have voting rights.